How I Pay for Everything

Tue, 22 Sep 2026 00:00:00 +0000

I think payment debates are usually argued as if they were moral contests: cash versus cards, tradition versus convenience. That framing misses the point for ordinary life. Last month I paid for a bus top-up, two coffees, a textbook, and a late-night grocery run without touching a banknote. Not as a stunt. I simply could not remember the last time cash was the fastest option in my day.

I used to keep a small note in my jacket “for emergencies.” The emergency never arrived. The note wrinkled, the jacket went out of rotation, and my actual emergencies — a dead transit card, a split restaurant bill — were already settled by phone.

Cash makes spending easy to do and hard to see

Some people budget better with physical money. Fair enough; envelopes work. For me the opposite happened. Cash made spending easy to do and hard to see. A card statement makes spending easy to see, and therefore easier to steer.

Instant transfers handled the fixed side of student life: rent share, utilities, dues to organizations I work with. The Bank for International Settlements Red Book and the ECB’s consumer payment surveys both show the same long trend across Europe — cash retaining a role while card and instant rails take the everyday volume. My week is a small sample of that curve.

That is why I think the interesting shift is not “cards beat cash” as a slogan. The real change is that spending has become a readable dataset. Once that becomes normal, the old image of budgeting as a jar on the shelf starts to look incomplete.

The habit that replaced the wallet

One primary card for daily spend; no loyalty-card pile in the same slot.
Categories reviewed once a week for five minutes, not after every purchase.
Instant transfers for anything recurring, so I am not renegotiating deadlines in my head.

Critics say it is easier to overspend when payment feels frictionless. Sometimes true. The counterweight for me has been visibility: a category climbing for three weeks in a row is harder to ignore than a thinning wallet, because the wallet’s decline is ambient and the chart is not.

What I wanted from money was not texture or ceremony. I wanted a system that runs without friction and still leaves a trail I can audit. Cards and instant rails do that. For me, that is enough of a reason to keep them in the jacket pocket’s old job.

References

Bank for International Settlements. (n.d.). Red Book Statistics on Payment and Settlement Systems. https://www.bis.org/statistics/payment_statistics.htm

European Central Bank. (2024). SPACE: Survey on the attitudes of consumers in Europe. https://www.ecb.europa.eu/stats/ecb_surveys/space/html/index.en.html

Türkiye Cumhuriyet Merkez Bankası. (n.d.). Payment Systems. https://www.tcmb.gov.tr/wps/wcm/connect/TR/TCMB+TR/Main+Menu/Payment+Systems/

Cashless on Arda Akgül

How I Pay for Everything

Cash makes spending easy to do and hard to see

The habit that replaced the wallet

References