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How I Pay for Everything
Date: 2026-09-22
Last modified: 2026-09-22

Description: I think cashless daily life is less about ideology than visibility. Here is how a student budget runs on cards and instant transfers.

Tags: Payments, Cashless, Budgeting, Personal Finance
Categories: Technology & Public Life
URL: https://arda-akgul.com/publications/how-i-pay-for-everything/
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<p>I think payment debates are usually argued as if they were moral contests: cash versus cards, tradition versus convenience. That framing misses the point for ordinary life. Last month I paid for a bus top-up, two coffees, a textbook, and a late-night grocery run without touching a banknote. Not as a stunt. I simply could not remember the last time cash was the fastest option in my day.</p>
<p>I used to keep a small note in my jacket &ldquo;for emergencies.&rdquo; The emergency never arrived. The note wrinkled, the jacket went out of rotation, and my actual emergencies — a dead transit card, a split restaurant bill — were already settled by phone.</p>
<h2 id="cash-makes-spending-easy-to-do-and-hard-to-see">Cash makes spending easy to do and hard to see</h2>
<p>Some people budget better with physical money. Fair enough; envelopes work. For me the opposite happened. Cash made spending easy to do and hard to see. A card statement makes spending easy to see, and therefore easier to steer.</p>
<p>Instant transfers handled the fixed side of student life: rent share, utilities, dues to organizations I work with. The 


<a
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 and the ECB&rsquo;s consumer payment surveys both show the same long trend across Europe — cash retaining a role while card and instant rails take the everyday volume. My week is a small sample of that curve.</p>
<p>That is why I think the interesting shift is not &ldquo;cards beat cash&rdquo; as a slogan. The real change is that spending has become a readable dataset. Once that becomes normal, the old image of budgeting as a jar on the shelf starts to look incomplete.</p>
<h2 id="the-habit-that-replaced-the-wallet">The habit that replaced the wallet</h2>
<ul>
<li>One primary card for daily spend; no loyalty-card pile in the same slot.</li>
<li>Categories reviewed once a week for five minutes, not after every purchase.</li>
<li>Instant transfers for anything recurring, so I am not renegotiating deadlines in my head.</li>
</ul>
<p>Critics say it is easier to overspend when payment feels frictionless. Sometimes true. The counterweight for me has been visibility: a category climbing for three weeks in a row is harder to ignore than a thinning wallet, because the wallet&rsquo;s decline is ambient and the chart is not.</p>
<p>What I wanted from money was not texture or ceremony. I wanted a system that runs without friction and still leaves a trail I can audit. Cards and instant rails do that. For me, that is enough of a reason to keep them in the jacket pocket&rsquo;s old job.</p>
<h3 id="references">References</h3>
<p>Bank for International Settlements. (n.d.). <em>Red Book Statistics on Payment and Settlement Systems</em>. 


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  data-link-type="external">https://www.bis.org/statistics/payment_statistics.htm</a>
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<p>European Central Bank. (2024). <em>SPACE: Survey on the attitudes of consumers in Europe</em>. 


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  href="https://www.ecb.europa.eu/stats/ecb_surveys/space/html/index.en.html"
  
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  data-link-type="external">https://www.ecb.europa.eu/stats/ecb_surveys/space/html/index.en.html</a>
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<p>Türkiye Cumhuriyet Merkez Bankası. (n.d.). <em>Payment Systems</em>. 


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  href="https://www.tcmb.gov.tr/wps/wcm/connect/TR/TCMB&#43;TR/Main&#43;Menu/Payment&#43;Systems/"
  
  target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer"
  data-link-type="external">https://www.tcmb.gov.tr/wps/wcm/connect/TR/TCMB+TR/Main+Menu/Payment+Systems/</a>
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